Worldwide Outreach Teaching School

Founder & President

Dr. Meiman Lai Saidi

Title: Speaking the Words of God in Love will never get in Trouble.

Scripture: 1 Peter 5:5-11 & Proverbs 4:23-27

Preface: Speaking the truth in love let the person will be able to change that is speaking in conviction not condemnation. The person hears my speaking who may not comes back to this church again, or may be it is the first time he comes. I must speak the truth in love careful. I can speak the truth but I represent Christ, I must speak the words from God, please God, not manipulate people, and not take my own flesh to control. I have to have words of God is inside of me, the words are not crush but lead people up; the words are tendered; God’s words are full of Grace, love and full of spirit. God’s Words can bring the miracle to heal people, change the designate of people, and change myself, too.

Commentary:

1. Keep the unity of the spiritual through the bond of peace:

Jerry is a business man, he believe that he will spend a lot of time and earn a lot of money, he described the business, Mike was going to tell him the truth in love, but Jerry said, ‘The success is just at the corner.” One day Jerry lost everything, Mike decided that never keep quite again. So there are some important

I must believe God and His Word.
I must obey God. I speak truth in love will never get in trouble.
I must trust Him for the consequences.

Than, I am not afraid, so when I open my mouth I speak from my heart with good attitude.

2. The past is never qualified to determine our future.

Old things are past, the past is never qualified to determine my future, because I put a new man, I can walk in love. If I speak a little lie, I must to remember the lie, so lie will stop me to say the truth in love. For example, a man was selling the last chicken, there is no more chicken left, but a buyer wanted to buy a heaver one, the seller put that chicken back and pick it up again and said, “This is bigger one.” The buyer asked for both chickens he wanted to buy. He had no more to sell because he just lies a little bit.

3. Listen Spiritually

The wrong ways to listen:

a. Input from 5 senses. b. Emotions or feelings, attitudes, knowledge; c. Reactions to input and feelings. Satanlikes to stay in the emotions and feelings, we failed the communication, and we are out of control. Satan is in control now. Somebody spoke UN biblical way to me but I have to answer him biblical words. Love is the Agape Love; the command is the words of God, “Love God with all my soul, heart and mind.” Love my neighbors as myself. The neighbor as ourselves. We must speak the truth in love.

The Right Way to Listen:

a. Input from 5 senses. b. I must ask the Holy Spirit to come to the conversations.

I have counseling of God with me; he will lead me with love and peace. c.Reactions myself with victory to please God. d. The desire to please God is based on the knowledge of God. e. Communicating together is the connection made, reconciliation, peace and trust. The conclusion is the healthy conversation

The point is asking the Holy Spirit to control the conversation.

4. Keep My Heart with All Diligence (勤勉): This is careful to pay attention (Pro. 4:23-27). Keep the words of God then I will keep my heart. I don’t wait until the conversations finished, I rejoice, the Lord is near (Philippians 4:4-9). Immediately I feel the Holy Spirit is with me, I rejoice, I will remain that God with me, so I beginning to have genital. So I am anxious (v.6). The gentle, loving and truth are in me. The person will have a joy of spirit. Both have the peace of God. Colo.5:22. Also, God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (1 Peter 5:5-11). When people see me will see the glory of Jesus 10And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 11To him be the power for ever and ever.”

THE POINTS:

1. Keep The Unity of the Spiritual through the bond of peace.

2. The past is never qualified to determine our future.

3. Listen spiritually

4. Keep my heart with all diligence be careful to pay attention.

Questions:

1. What area of your life would you like God to restore and make you strong and firm?

2. What leadership responsibilities do you have? (We all have some!)

3. In your life, where is the ‘lion’ (1 Peter 5:8); just looking for you?

4. What in this lesson has helped?

5. How do those pictures bring peace (1 Peter 5:14) to you?

Songs:

1. Assurance of Guidance: Arr. from Proverbs 3:5,6; Music by Dr. Meiman Lai Saidi

2. Guard Your Heart: Arr. From Proverbs 4:23; Music by Dr. Meiman Lai Saidi