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FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW><STRONG>領袖訓練中級課程第四課</STRONG></SPAN></DIV> <DIV style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText align=center><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW><STRONG>領袖的“核心小組”</STRONG></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></DIV> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>今天我們進入領袖訓練中級課程第四課﹕領袖的“核心小組”。這一課是上次第三課的延續。在上一課我們提到領袖必須跟他身邊的一小群人建立好的關係，我們特別提到領袖的核心小圈子，就是跟領袖個人比較接近、比較親密的少數人對領袖個人的影響，我們把它稱為領袖的核心小組。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>這一課裡面我們要學習如何建立一個健康有益的核心小組。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>記得，在上一課我們提到核心小組的時候，我列出了核心小組所包含的五種關系﹕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>神，我們的天父；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>家庭，我們的配偶及兒女；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>3. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>使徒保羅那樣的導師；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>4. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>巴那巴那樣的同工；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>5. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>提摩太那樣的門徒。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>現在讓我們一一來看這五種關系—神，家庭，“保羅”“巴拿巴” 和“提摩太”。下面我們要具體地講解如何建立這些關系﹕ </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>A.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>天父—領袖與神的關係</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>領袖要有好的靈修生活</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>大多數的領袖都有天生的急性子，他們所計劃要作的事就希望能馬上付諸行動。因為領袖都有這個趨向，所以特別需要有意識地停下來想一想，我們在各樣事工中有沒有給神留餘地。首先我們要思想我們在靈裡面的身份。事實上神在聖經中最</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>強調使用的稱呼不是創造者或主宰者，而是父親。信徒首先是神的兒女，這是新約聖經中</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>我們每一個基督徒所設定的身份，這當然包括領袖在內。我們首先是神的兒女，然後才是領袖。我們也只有在依靠天父的前提下才能帶領別人。你需要有意識地邁出這一步，來保持自己與天父的重要關系。在神所建立的國中，我們要先得到愛才能去愛別人。這是無法改變的事實。所以約翰一書四章</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>19</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>節這樣說﹕“我們愛，因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>神先愛我們”。我們要先得到恩典</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>然後才能給別人帶來恩典。如果我們忘記這個原則，就會很快被“耗盡”或是說“用完”，再沒有東西給。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>因此，作</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>屬靈領袖，我們要提醒自己，不要只是</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>講道而研讀聖經，或是</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>別人而讀經；應該為自己的需要而過屬靈的生活。我們要向舊約裏的以斯拉學習，因為以斯拉在這方面是一個好榜樣。以斯拉記七章</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>節告訴我們，以斯拉先是“定誌考究耶和華的律法”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>然後才“將律例典章教訓以色列人”。這才是正確的次序—要先自己學習，自己先得著，實踐所學到的，然後才去教導別人，使別人也得著。可惜我們卻常常顛倒過來，自己都還沒學到，也作不到，就要教導別人，要別人得著，這怎麼可能？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>講到與神的親密關系，常常讓我想起小時候的情景。我記得我媽媽常常告訴親戚朋友說，我們三個兄弟姐妹中，我跟他最親密。我小時候喜歡坐在媽媽的膝上，陪著媽媽聊天。但是上中學之後，有了一些自己的好朋友，我陪媽媽的時間就慢慢減少了。後來上大學，功課多，晚上又要打工，就更沒有時間給媽媽了。最後有了事業，有了家庭，雖然還是堅持跟媽媽住在一起，媽媽也仍然最疼我，但是我實在很少時間給媽媽了。後來媽媽離開世界了，我才若有所失的，懷念以前常跟媽媽在一起的親密時光。 </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>這好比我們剛信主的時候，也像小孩子一樣常常來到神的身邊，與祂親近，交通。然而，當我們進入了屬靈的青少年期，就變得遲疑了，有太多的事情要做，讓我們不再有時間給神了。通常要等到我們屬靈生命相當成熟的時候，才意識到與神的親密關系對我們有多重要。讓我們常常來到神的面前享受與祂親密的關係。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>領袖要有屬靈的操練</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>下面我們有一些關於與神親密相處在實際操練上的建議﹕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>每天與神有定時的約會。作</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>領袖你每天有各種各樣的約會，當然也應該要有分別出來單單給神的時間。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>先安靜自己的心，不要馬上開始列出禱告事項。個人靈修的時間在英文叫做</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>quiet time</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>「安靜時間」，我覺得很有意思。先用幾分鍾時間讓你的內心安靜下來，在神面前等候，然後求神給你祂的話語。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>3.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>準備好聖經以及紙和筆，好記下神通過經文給你的話語。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>4.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>擬定一個讀經計劃</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>每一次讀一段經文並仔細咀嚼</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>經文的長短要適度，以能夠消化得了為依據。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>5.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>專心讀經直到你有所收獲。要讀到你領受了神特別的提醒或指示，或是學到一個屬靈原則或一個屬靈真理</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>止。 </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>6.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>把神給你的話語或是你所學到的功課記錄下來。如果願意學習得更認真一點，可以按照一般神學院所教的研經學的方法，寫下三個綱要﹕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(a) </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>當時的信息﹕這段經文對當時原初的讀者說的原意；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(b) </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>跨時的信息﹕這段經文給任何時代的信徒都適用的普世原則</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(c) </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>現時的信息﹕這段經文如何應用在我個人的現實生活中</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>7.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>默想﹕花點時間思想你特別有感動的經文或神藉經文特別對你說的話。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>8.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>禱告﹕用這段經文作為禱告的內容。求神幫助你將所讀到的經文，建立正確的真理原則在你心中。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>9.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>通過順服，把你所學到的記在心裡，並且遵行出來。行道比學道重要。遵行神的話語是記住神的話語最有效的方法。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>B.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>家庭—安全的環境</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>領袖要與家人有密切的關係</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>上面講的是領袖與神的關系，現在我們要講家庭關系。一般領袖都是大忙人，天天都有作不完的事。很多領袖雖然愛他們的家人，但是因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>事工的繁忙，對家庭的重視常常只停留在口頭上或是思想上，而沒有實際付諸行動。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>神給我們家庭作我們的避難所或是避風港，使我們在家庭裏享受到親密的關系和無條件的愛。我們可以毫無恐懼地敞開自己而不怕被傷害，受排斥。家庭也是我們“充電”的地方，讓我們有力量面對每天的困難和挑戰。我們和家人之間比較能夠彼此了解和接納。就像科學家的實驗室那樣，我們在家庭中可以嘗試著去實踐聆聽，去愛，饒恕，解決矛盾。所有這一切都是要幫助我們面對我們在外面所要面對的問題。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>從某個角度上講，我們屬靈領袖的職份和事奉是從家庭開始的。如果我們的一些作法在家裏行不通，就別用到教會事工上去。我們首先要服事好家人，然後才有資格服事其他人。保羅在提摩太前書五章</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>節中教訓﹕“人若不看顧親屬，就是背了真道，比不信的人還不好。不看顧自己家裏的人，更是如此”。保羅所強調的就是要先在家裏作服事人的領袖。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>健全家庭的特徵</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>下面我要提一提健康穩固的家庭的一些特點</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>家人之間經常互相欣賞，彼此表達謝意。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>家庭成員有意識地安排好生活讓自己有時間與家人共處。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>3. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>用積極的辦法處理家人之間的糾紛和矛盾。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>4. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>彼此委身，對在家庭中所要承擔的義務有強烈的責任心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>5. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>不斷的彼此溝通，時時有交流。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>6. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>有共同的價值觀。這一點是最重要的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>7. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>父母以身作則，作孩子的好榜樣，讓他們懂得怎樣成為別人的祝福。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>上面我們講了與神的關系及家庭關系</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>現在我們要具體談談與你生活中的“保羅”“巴拿巴”和“提摩太”的關系。加拉太書裏清楚地講到這幾種關系的重要性。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>C.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>保羅—顧問和導師</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>“保羅”代表的是一個可以成</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你導師的人。他是你所尊敬的，在屬靈的道路上行在你前面可以帶領你的人。每一位屬靈領袖都需要顧問和導師，不管你在事工上多有成就，甚至於你已經成</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>別人的導師也不例外。在領導的旅途上，導師比我們更進一步，他們把自己學到的東西傳授給我們。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>箴言二十章</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>節說﹕“人心懷藏謀略，好像深水，惟明哲人才能汲引出來”。這段經文告訴我們，人心深處常常藏著最真實的東西；而導師就是那個明哲、有智慧的人，能把這些真實的東西挖掘出來。導師並不是簡單地告訴你該做什</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>，他會問你問題，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你提供參考意見，促使你自己作出明智的決定。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>如何尋找導師</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>我們建議您在每一年的開始，為自己定下五個你自己希望能夠成長的領域。然後，不是去找一個盡善盡美，在各個領域都強的人來作你的師傅，而是在每個領域裡找一個最好，最成功，最有經驗的人來作你的師傅。其實找師傅並不像你所想象的那麼難，只是要註意以下五個原則﹕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>a.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>不要先入</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>主地將一些可能的人選排除在外，因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>神</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>我們預備的導師不一定和我們自己心目中所有的形像相符。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>b.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>定下的目標要根據現實的標準，要實際可行。不要覺得導師一定是十全十美的，因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>沒有人是完美的，只要他在某一方面比你強，對你有幫助就行。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>c.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>看可能成為你的導師的人選身上，找出你希望發展的長處。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>d.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>保持開放態度對待各種不同的導師，讓他們有機會投資在你身上，幫助你成長。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>e.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>如果導師不住在附近，你要願意通過電話或電子郵件去與他接觸交流。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>在導師身上找什麼</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>接下來我們要來看選擇導師的一些標準條件﹕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>a.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>敬虔</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Godly)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們必須有值得你效法的屬靈氣質和品格。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>b.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>客觀</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Objective)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們必須有能力觀觀、評價你的長處和短處</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>c.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>真誠</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Authentic)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們必須真摯，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>人真實、坦誠、透明</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>d.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>忠心</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Loyal)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們必須值得信賴，能</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>我們保守秘密</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>e.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>僕心</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(serving)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們願意付出時間和資源來幫助建造別人</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>D.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>巴拿巴—同工、好友</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>現在我們要來看領袖與“巴拿巴”的關系。“巴拿巴”代表的是一位親密的同輩、同工兼好友。從某種意義上講是能夠督促提醒你、對你付責任的同伴；也是能夠給你鼓勵，安慰，扶持，願意陪你走一段路的同輩。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>使徒行傳第九章記載保羅初得救信主之後不久，來到耶路撒冷要跟那些使徒接觸交通，很可惜使徒們都怕他，不信任他，不願跟他往來，使保羅覺得失望灰心。但是聖經告訴我們，只有巴拿巴接待他，還帶他去見使徒們，為他解釋真相。真是難得！弟兄姊妹，在領袖的身邊真需要有這樣的巴拿巴陪著他。我很感謝主，在我屬靈的道路上，有兩三個這樣的巴拿巴，忠心地陪伴著我走，鼓勵我，為我打氣，但是也緊緊地盯著我，不容我走錯路。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>我覺得找到一個我們生活中的“巴拿巴”就好像是從神那裏領受了一件珍貴的禮物。他們能激勵我們持守對神和對人許下的承諾。他們也常常能夠對我們的屬靈生命提出一些值得我們去思考的問題，諸如我們服事的動機及目的，我們與人相處中所表露出來的品格和人際關係等等。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>弟兄姊妹，不知道你有沒有這麼一個或是兩個巴拿巴在你的生火中陪伴你？如果有的話，我相信你的靈命會一直不斷的成長。如果還沒有的話，願神幫助你找到一個願意對你的生命付出代價的巴拿巴。你生命中的這位巴拿巴不但很了解你，同時也能不顧你的弱點而來愛你，接納你。你在他面前不需要有任何的隱瞞，你可以對他完全赤露敞開。他會激發你去發掘自己的潛力。最重要的是，這位同工是你忠心的禱告夥伴，常常用禱告來保護你，為你守望，為你堵破口。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>領袖與巴拿巴之間討論的問題</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>我們在大綱裏列出了一些領袖和巴拿巴之間可以討論的問題﹕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>a. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你有沒有每天花時間親近神，有沒有好的靈修生活</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>b. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你這個星期裏有沒有受到什</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>引誘或試探</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>c. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你有沒有什</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>要向神認罪的事情</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>d. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你生活的重心有沒有顛倒</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你的優先次序正確嗎？你是否正向著你的目標邁進</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>e. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你對這些問題的回答是否完全誠實</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>在負責任的同工身上找些什麼</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>那</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>誰是能督促提醒我們的好同伴呢</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>? </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>我覺得在人選上有四個重要的方面</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>:<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>能追根究底幫助你看清靈命上的弱點和需要</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>能就他們自身的問題和弱點對你開誠布公，給你作參考</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>3. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>有膽量對你的看法提出挑戰，甚至提出質問</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>;<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>4. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>值得信任</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>可以</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>你們所交流的事情內容完全保守秘密</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>E. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>提摩太</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>現在我們要來看看你生活中的“提摩太”。聖經中很清楚地講到，屬靈領袖要培養能夠一生服事神的門徒。耶穌當年挑選了十二門徒來跟從祂，受他的訓練教導，成為他的接班人。同樣的，保羅發現了提多，提摩太等可造就的接班人。“提摩太”代表的是在屬靈生命上比你年幼，但渴望成長的門徒。他們願意在與領袖同工時不斷學習。事實上當他們學習的時候，他們也回應了神對他們的呼招，將所學到的再傳下去。還記得我們這門課一開始我對你說的話嗎？我們要求你學了這門課之後，把學到的再去教另外</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>25</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>個人，訓練他們作門徒，這樣代代相傳，教會才有接班人。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>有一個教會領袖，在半退休的情況下，接受神學的裝備。最近他打電話給我，請求我作他的導師。我不敢答應，心裡很多掙紮。第一，這位弟兄的靈命很好，我怎麼有資格做他的導師？第二，我自己的服事已經夠忙，那裏有時間去兼顧他的事？所以我就告訴他，給我一點時間禱告看看。當我安靜下來為這件事禱告了兩個星期之後，神很清楚的感動我，要我答應這位弟兄的要求，我就打電話給他，告訴他我願意做他的導師。弟兄姊妹，當我們願意為下一代的領袖－就是我們的提摩太－付出代價去訓練培養他們，成為他們的祝福的時候，神會賜福給我們，加力量給我們，使我們成為更多人的祝福。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>保羅在提摩太後書二章</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>節中寫道﹕“你在許多見證人面前聽見我所教訓的，也要交托那忠心能教導別人的人”。在你所服事的領域裡，如果你有好的生活見證，其他人都會看到，也會願意向你學習；當機會來的時候，你要願意踏出來，付出時間、精力去培養你的提摩太，讓教會後繼有人。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>尋找你的提摩太</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>當然你也可以更積極一點，主動去找你心目中的提摩太，找一個值得你花心血、時間去培養的門徒。這個人選至少必須具備下面這幾個品質中的三、四個﹕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>1.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>忠信</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Faithful)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們在信仰上忠心，且能持守自己的承諾。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>2.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>可用</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Available)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們有可用的時間投身於跟你學習。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>3.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>主動</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Initiative)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕在信仰生活上主動尋求成長的機會，而不是坐等導師來幫助他們。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>4.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>受教</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Teachable)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們願意受教、來跟你學習。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>5.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>渴慕</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>(Hungry)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>﹕他們有一顆熱切渴慕的心</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>希望成長</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>領袖。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>結束以前我要給你講一個故事。這個故事很能幫助我們來理解這課所講的領袖的核心圈子這個概念的重要性。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>故事講的是一位女士深夜駕車行駛在高速公路上。女士發現後面有一輛輕型卡車緊緊尾隨著她的車，她害怕自己要是開得太慢就會被這輛卡車撞了，於是就加快了車速。可是後面的卡車也緊跟著加了速。她換了車道，卡車也跟著換了過來。就這樣，無論她怎</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>開，卡車一直緊咬著不放。她想，我一定要擺脫這輛追尾的車，於是，她在最近的一個出口下了高速公路，誰知道，卡車也緊跟著下了高速。她快速地將車開到一個加油站，開了車門就沖出來跑進加油站去，想看看卡車司機究竟要做什</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>。天哪！她所看到的簡直讓人難以置信 — 卡車司機從車上下來</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US>, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>打開了她的那輛車的後門，從後座上拖出一個陌生男人來！這個很可能是個強奸犯甚至殺人犯，就這樣一直躲在她車的後座上等著伺機行動，還好被卡車司機無意中看到了，於是就緊緊地跟著要保護這位女士。原來她一直想要擺脫的人竟然是要保護她的人呢！</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>這不正是今天對教會領袖的真實寫照嗎？當我們身邊沒有督促提醒支持我們的人時，我們也常常錯誤地要逃離那些應該加入我們核心圈子中的人。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt" class=MsoPlainText><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=ZH-TW>所以，弟兄姊妹，當神帶給您一些在您旁邊的核心小組的成員的時候，不要覺得你的自由會被侵犯而去躲避不去與他們建立關係。核心小組的成員看起來好像讓你處處受限制，受監視，讓您覺得不自在，但是這對您是好的，能夠使您生活不致越軌，不致不受約束而放縱。核心小組成員能幫助領袖不斷成長。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: MingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: MingLiU; mso-fareast-language: ZH-TW" lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></font> </div> </font> <BR> </td> </tr> </table> <font color="#666666"><img src="http://www.w4j.org/MessageCenter/News/images/spacer.gif" width="17" height="5"> </font></td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <img src="http://www.w4j.org/MessageCenter/News/images/spacer.gif" width="13" height="13"> <table width="602" border="0" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="0" bgcolor="#5B7ACC"> <tr> <td valign="top"> <table width="600" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="2" bgcolor="#F4FAFF"> <tr bgcolor="#D1E7F5"> <td colspan="2"><font color="#003366"><font color="#990000"><font color="#006699"><font color="#990000">相關訊息</font></font></font></font></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="12"><font color="#003366"><img src="http://www.w4j.org/MessageCenter/News/images/bullet-arrow-red.gif" width="7" height="7" hspace="4"></font></td> <td width="580"><a href='DispOneMessage.asp?txtOrgCode=HaoMuRen&Category=03&ID=HaoMuRen40567502781114'>領袖訓練中級課程第三課 健康的核心人際關系網絡</a></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="12"><font color="#003366"><img src="http://www.w4j.org/MessageCenter/News/images/bullet-arrow-red.gif" width="7" height="7" hspace="4"></font></td> <td width="580"><a href='DispOneMessage.asp?txtOrgCode=HaoMuRen&Category=03&ID=HaoMuRen40567443273537'> 領袖訓練中級課程第二課 心態-致勝的關鍵</a></td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> </body> </html>